The world is still out there for us

May. 24th, 2026 08:44 pm
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D and I had a nice time this afternoon, asking local pubs and restaurants if they'd put up a flyer advertising the local queer club that we're on the committee for.

D had designed and printed the posters today; they look great (while also being full of useful information and as accessible as printed things are going to be).

I can really recommend joining an in-person thing, printing stuff on paper, and going around asking strangers if we can put it up there; everyone was kind and friendly -- sometimes even to the point of suggesting nearby derelict buildings that are full of posters, heh. (We didn't take that advice but felt good about worthy of this inside info.)

This has been on my mind, because of the EHRC guidance. Yesterday morning, I said on fedi:

I went to transgym this morning and it was fun and silly and supportive and no one mentioned the EHRC thing and I used the men's room.

The world is still out there for us. As it should be.

The weather has been glorious today too, cloudless blue sky and it actually hit 80F today. We apparently walked 3.5 miles in the course of all this (and getting to and from home of course). I had a pint of Sam Smith's alpine lager, a nonalchoholic ginger beer, and a delicious apple juice with added mint and ginger, so I stayed hydrated!

Tomorrow I'm hoping to drag myself to the gym, since there won't be circuits on a bank holiday. D said he might join me, which would be great. And it also means that we can flyer the gym/library itself, and maybe a few other places that were closed when we went past today.

A Farewell to Shelley(ness)

May. 24th, 2026 07:32 pm
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Posted by John Scalzi

My friend Shelley Combs died, suddenly, a week ago. I found out about it the other day when her ex-husband posted about it on Facebook, and it was fair to say I was shocked. She and I had messaged each other just a few days before her passing, to catch up and talk about our kids and just have very mundane friend talk. I didn’t know it would be the last time I would ever talk to her, but then, we so rarely do know when will ever be the last time. What strikes me most about it now was the very ordinariness of it. Just two friends, chatting. And then that was all.

I met Shelley back in the day, when I had just started writing the Whatever, and she and I were part of that first wave of “online journals,” the name we had for blogs before we had the word “blog.” This what I had to say about her and her site, Shelleyness, most of thirty years ago now:

Shelley is that whip-smart girl in your homeroom class who everyone was a little scared of, not because she could beat you up (though don’t tempt her, pal), but because if she ever trained her formidable verbal skills on you, your sad little head would explode as you tried to wriggle away from the beat-down. Now she’s all grown up and focusing her attention on the world today, and it’s a hell of a lot of fun to read. Note, however, that there’s more to Shelley than attitude — far more. She’s funny, intelligent, observant, and she’s real. She writes without artifice and she says what she thinks, and she says it with style. You may come for the heat of her wit, but you’ll stay of the depth of her mind.

We got along like a house on fire way back when, because we had snark in common, as well as a birthday – she and I were born on the same day in 1969. There was a kinship, and it was a thrill to read what she had to say about her life, her universe, and everything, and to be part of that world. We become close enough that I attended her wedding, along with Krissy and a then very young Athena. It was a time of feeling very much like everything was on the verge of happening.

And of course things did happen — life happened. Shelley stopped writing her online journal and started doing other things, I started writing novels, she had a kid and we fell mostly out of each others’ orbits. Not from a lack of affection, I think, but mostly just because you focus on what’s in front of you, and also, the context in which we existed — the online journal scene — just stopped being a thing. I went back through the old version of my site in the Internet Archive and come across a collection of links for those early online journals. Nearly all those sites are gone now, a moment of time moved into memory. I do still see some of those folks online, on Facebook or Bluesky, and it’s still great to see them. It’s also different.

I’m pretty sure it wasn’t Shelley’s intent to give me a gift by reaching out to me a couple of weeks ago — she just wanted to wish me a belated happy mutual birthday, and to talk about nothing in particular. But I see it now as a gift, rare and true, a reconnection that brought us up to date, for what turned out to be a final time. A reminder that we were still, after all this time, in each others’ thoughts. It was a small thing, but small things can be good, and valuable.

And now, let me hand the small valuable gift to you: If you’re reading this, take a moment to reach out to a friend you haven’t caught up with in a while. Just a text or call or email or online message to let them know you’re thinking about them. You don’t have to talk about anything important — Shelley and I didn’t — but the act of reaching out is important in itself. People like knowing they’re being thought of, and fondly.

As for my friend Shelley, well. I will miss her. And I will continue to think of her on our mutual birthday. My life was better for having known her.

— JS

WOS conference day one

May. 24th, 2026 11:37 am
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Last weekend was the annual ornithological society conference, which this year was in the far eastern part of the state on the border with Idaho. I spent the first day in Whitman county in the Palouse.

The Palouse )

Done Since 2026-05-18

May. 24th, 2026 04:32 pm
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It is now meterologically summer. Tomorrow's predicted temperature is 26°C (81°F). The little thermometer on the shelf by my desk says 26.5. I'd rather be cold, thanks -- it's easy to put layers on. Probably time to fold up my blanket.

Our flight back from Hamburg on Monday was 45 minutes. We spent at least that long waiting for our wheelchairs in Schiphol. The con was worth the trouble travel, but it might be too much for me next year. I'll be 80 by then. And between trigger finger, stiffness, and lack of practice, my hands weren't in any shape to play more than one or two songs per day on average, and I have to plan for the possibility that it won't improve much -- I may have to re-learn keyboard. It's only been 60-odd years...

See Saturday for the following quote: "See a provider if you’re feeling pain that lasts more than a few days without getting better." Um... how many months has it been?

Linkies: bad news first: The United States loses its status as a liberal democracy. Will probably go unreported by US mainstream media.

Then the corresponding good news: The EU Is Going Through a Trump-Fueled Breakup With Big Tech For obvious reasons.

Nostalgia: ~ rip.so :: the digital graveyard

Pretties: Artist Made Hundreds of Safari Animal Sculptures for His Town KLM commercial: Swan Take off

Notes & links, as usual )

Charlie Met a Skunk

May. 24th, 2026 10:11 am
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It did not go well for her.

Nor, it must be said, did it go particularly well for us, since Charlie has now swamped the entire house with a gassy, onion-y skunk smell. Currently all the windows are open and the fans are running. It’s working questionably well.

To Charlie’s credit, as soon as she came into the house she ran upstairs and toward the bathroom. She was well aware she needed a bath. She got one. She will be getting another one soon.

Poor puppy. Poor us.

— JS

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Welcome back!

Shockingly, only one non-fiction title and three–THREE–romances! I can hardly believe it.

Do you have any book recommendations to pass along? Let us know in the comments!

Because I Killed Him

I spotted one of my mutuals on Goodreads reading this one and compared the main character dynamics to Jude and Cardan from The Cruel Prince. Definitely buying for myself.

The wrong ally is deadlier than an enemy.

In the Civilized World, everyone is rich, yet money doesn’t buy safety. It only buys a gold coffin. The real currency is having the right allies. Low-citizens survive by joining high-citizens’ exclusive inner circles, trading loyalty for protection from laws that govern speech, dress, and posture—and punish mistakes with public beheading.

Low-citizen Loredana Waldsten already knows the cost of breaking the rules. Once a rising fencing prodigy, she lost the right to carry weapons after killing a high-citizen in a brutal locker-room attack. The courts erased his death to preserve his family’s honor. Now she’s unarmed, legally defenseless, and enrolled at the elite Grandmaster University, where champagne spills into the gutters and reputations are built on death duels.

When Loredana’s father, a low-citizen politician, publicly challenges the high-citizens, she becomes a target. Some classmates demand her execution. Others hunt her for sport. And by law, she’s forbidden to fight back.

Her only chance of survival lies with Edmund Prew, a charming yet ruthless high-citizen student she’s been warned against. Edmund’s family has been locked in a bitter feud with Loredana’s for years, and he wants nothing to do with her until a lost bet forces him to protect her within his inner circle. What begins as a scandalous, strategic alliance turns perilous as they fall for each other.

Because the man Loredana killed wasn’t just a high-citizen. He was Edmund’s cousin.

Loving Edmund means living a lie.
Telling the truth means certain death.

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The Dressmaker’s Secret Earl

This one came from another one of my mutuals on Goodreads and I know many of you are always on the lookout for new historical romances. I believe the books in this series feature two romances happening concurrently.

A Marriage of Convenience? Not for Augusta—She’s Determined to Choose Her Own Fate.

Book 1 of an interconnected Regency romance series, where each love story stands alone—yet characters, secrets, and consequences echo from book to book.

The impoverished daughter of a baronet, Augusta knows what it means to be powerless. When her aunt arranges a marriage to a scoundrel, she refuses to become a pawn in a transaction. Instead, she flees to London, her dreams pinned on building a life as a modiste—designing gowns for society’s elite.

But freedom comes with unexpected risks. On her first day in the city, Augusta crosses paths with Lord Bridlington, a brooding earl whose clubfoot and scandalous reputation have made him an outcast. Yet beneath his gruff exterior is a man grappling with hidden pain and longing for acceptance.

Drawn into the orbit of Lord Bridlington’s captivating sister, Mariana—a woman whose secret ambition is to marry the one man society deems entirely unsuitable—Augusta is swept into a world of whispered intrigue, midnight masquerades, and suppressed passions. Disguises, daring schemes, and reckless escapades soon become the fabric of her new life.

Yet as her heart begins to race for a man she never meant to care for, Augusta’s past catches up with her, threatening to shatter the freedom she fought so hard to claim. And Lord Bridlington’s secrets may be more dangerous than she ever imagined.

Will Augusta find the courage to seize the life—and the love—she truly desires?

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Femina

If you like a feminist history deep dive, perhaps give this one a peek. 

A groundbreaking reappraisal of medieval femininity, revealing why women have been written out of history and why it matters

The Middle Ages are seen as a bloodthirsty time of Vikings, saints and kings; a patriarchal society that oppressed and excluded women. But when we dig a little deeper into the truth, we can see that the “Dark” Ages were anything but.

Oxford and BBC historian Janina Ramirez has uncovered countless influential women’s names struck out of historical records, with the word FEMINA annotated beside them. As gatekeepers of the past ordered books to be burned, artworks to be destroyed, and new versions of myths, legends and historical documents to be produced, our view of history has been manipulated.

Only now, through a careful examination of the artifacts, writings and possessions they left behind, are the influential and multifaceted lives of women emerging. Femina goes beyond the official records to uncover the true impact of women, such as:

  • Jadwiga, the only female king in Europe
  • Margery Kempe, who exploited her image and story to ensure her notoriety
  • Loftus Princess, whose existence gives us clues about the beginnings of Christianity in England

In Femina, Ramirez invites us to see the medieval world with fresh eyes and discover why these remarkable women were removed from our collective memories.

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Princeweaver

For all my Winter’s Orbit or A Taste of Gold and Iron fans out there! 

Their marriage is to save a warring kingdom. But in the process, it might destroy them both…

Born with forbidden, nature-infused magic in an occupied land, anxious apothecary Meilyr survives by keeping his head down. Until he ends up engaged to invading prince Osian in order to save his brother’s life. Now, he is in a deadly game of cat-and-mouse to hide his true self.

When nobles in Osian’s court are gruesomely murdered by the same magic that flows through his veins, Meilyr realises someone is seeking revenge for his homeland. As suspicion towards him grows, he and the prince work together to uncover the killer, or risk losing the crown – or their lives.

Between court politics, unwieldy magic and a murderer on the loose, Meilyr must keep his wits about him. Especially as his feelings for Osian grow deeper with every passing day…

Combines the court intrigue and slow-burn yearning of A Taste of Gold and Iron with the folkloric grounding and lore that readers of Naomi Novik and Stephanie Garber will enjoy.

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Sunday Sale Digest!

May. 24th, 2026 06:00 am
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Posted by Amanda

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If you want to have a little extra fun, be a little more yourself, and be part of keeping the site open for everyone in the future, we can’t wait to see you in our new subscription-based section with exclusive content and events.

Everything you’re used to seeing at the Hot Pink Palace that is Smart Bitches Trashy Books will remain free as always, because we remain committed to fostering community among brilliant readers who love romance.

Mask bloc gig

May. 23rd, 2026 11:52 pm
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I've been so excited for the last few days since we found out about this Mask Bloc folk-punk gig that we could go to.

A gig where D and I weren't the only two wearing masks!

I had a great time, particularly liked two of the acts, Albatross and Octavia Holyoke. When D's girlfriend asked us if Cheap Dirty Horse were playing, this was my introduction to that particular musical group, but then after Albatross's set when we were all outside drinking and/or smoking, they made an offhand reference to playing the washboard for Cheap Dirty Horse so we saw I guess one-seventh of them after all!

Albatross played a sweet song called something like "Song I Will Never Sing for My Mother" about being trans, they (don't know their pronouns, so this is the Unspecified they) introduced it by saying it includes their deadname but they don't think of it as a deadname, so it was nice to get some representation for my own experience there. The song also referred to their testosterone gel as smelling like gin, which made me a little sad because I think it smells like hand sanitizer (which is why mine is known as planned manitizer); I'm used to a better class of gin I guess!

The pub's gammons were clearly a little unimpressed with those of us in the side room for the gig. When D and I went to the bar to get a last pint, still wearing our masks of course, an older white guy next to D challenged him about why he wore a mask. D mildly offered that it was because of the ongoing covid pandemic, and the guy got weird, saying stuff like "they won't work" and trying to tell D he'd developed one of the vaccines but also people's immune systems were good enough. We just ignored him and went outside, but very sweetly the lady who'd been serving us at the bar (who was wearing a mask when she did! all the bar staff did when I saw them) actually came out to apologize for this and assure us that that guy doesn't normally come there, she'd never seen him before. It was really above and beyond, I wouldn't have expected any response from her at all, we also had never been there before, so I was touched by the support.

It was a great nice, after a great day of helping plant trees and fruit plants for a "forest garden" near us, having a cider in the sunshine, taking a nap, we even got to cycle to this gig.

Books Received, May 16 — 22

May. 23rd, 2026 08:48 am
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A dozen books new to me: eight fantasy, three science fiction, one historical, at least four of which are series.

Books Received, May 16 — 22

Poll #34638 Books Received, May 16 — 22
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 44


Which of these look interesting?

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A Dance of Burning Blades by M. H. Ayinde (April 2026)
9 (20.5%)

Crimson in Quietus by Eugen Bacon (September 2026)
10 (22.7%)

To Ride a Rising Storm by Moniquill Blackgoose (January 2026)
21 (47.7%)

Blade of Two Faces by Blake Blessing (November 2026)
4 (9.1%)

The Silver Hand by Shawn Carpenter (August 2026)
7 (15.9%)

Like the Moon We Rise by Annabelle Cormack (January 2027)
3 (6.8%)

Little Necromancers by Emma Devlin (March 2027)
10 (22.7%)

Eyes of Kings by Chloe Gong (August 2026)
1 (2.3%)

What Haunts the Ice by S. Hati (January 2027)
6 (13.6%)

The Curve of the World by Vonda N. McIntyre (March 2026)
31 (70.5%)

The Unfolding: Mairee by S. Nyland (April 2026)
4 (9.1%)

Project V by Park Seolyeon (April 2026)
8 (18.2%)

Some other option (see comments)
1 (2.3%)

Cats!
27 (61.4%)

Whatcha Reading? May 2026, Part Two

May. 23rd, 2026 07:00 am
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Posted by Amanda

Wooden bench and flowering plants in gardenHappy Saturday! Here’s what we’re reading right now as May winds down:

Lara: Candice Proctor released only seven historical romances and I’m on my second already. The books are phenomenal and have given me a great deal of food for thought.

Elyse:  I just read There Is No Place for Us by Brian Goldstone. ( A | BN | K | AB ) It follows five Atlanta families who make up part of the increasing number of homeless (the author uses homeless not unhoused) in America who also work full time or more than full time. It’s a really eye opening book, especially when you learn that these families (usually depending on predatory extended stay motels or sleeping in their cars or crashing on friends couches) don’t actually contribute to the people officially counted as homeless. It’s a hard book to read but really important.

Sarah: I finished Romantic Hero by Kirsty Greenwood ( A | BN | K | AB ) and I actually factually laughed aloud and also cried.

And I just started I Think We Should Kill Other People, ( A | BN | K | AB ) which is starting off zany.

Whatcha reading? Let us know in the comments!

Fuel joy

May. 22nd, 2026 09:49 pm
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The only thing I am going to say about the draft EHRC guidance that has been laid before Parliament today is what I got in the email from Not A Phase this evening.

FUEL JOY. FUND RESISTANCE.

A final draft of the EHRC’s Code of Practice has been laid before Parliament by the Women & Equalities Minister. While the update is undeniably regressive for the UK’s trans+ community, please keep in mind:

* The Code is important, but it does not change the law.

* There is no criminal law prohibiting trans+ people from gendered spaces such as bathrooms.

* There are no laws allowing harassment in bathrooms.

* Gender reassignment is still considered to be a protected characteristic, meaning trans+ people are legally protected from harm in all settings.

* Venues are not obligated to become gender police, nor are they legally required to have gendered spaces (such as gendered bathrooms). Going fully gender neutral is an option.

Then a link to their full statement, and to donate, and I know a good marketing campaign when I see it but it really is true that these donations fund joy. What I call transgym here all the time is in fact a Not A Phase program, so from this I get all the mental and physical benefits of exercise, community, confidence to work out safely on my own without hurting myself or perishing from social anxiety, and a better relationship to my body. It's no exaggeration to say it's one of the few things that's made the biggest positive difference to my life in the last few years.

Cookies, YA, & More

May. 22nd, 2026 03:30 pm
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The Strawberry Patch Pancake House

The Strawberry Patch Pancake House by Laurie Gilmore is 99c and a Kindle Daily Deal! This released last month and is the fourth book the Dream Harbor small town romance series. We’ve featured at least one previous book in the series on sale before

As a renowned chef, single-dad Archer never planned on moving to a small town, let alone running a pancake restaurant. But Dream Harbor needs a new chef, and Archer needs a community to help raise his daughter, Olive.

Iris has never managed to hold down a job for more than a few months. So when Mayor Kelly suggests Archer is looking for a nanny, and Iris might be available, she shudders at the thought. But in need of money she reluctantly agrees.

As Archer and Iris get used to their new roles, is it possible that they might have more in common than they first thought, or is Olive just determined to play match-maker…

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Mrs. Nash’s Ashes

Mrs. Nash’s Ashes by Sarah Adler is $1.99 and another KDD! This was mentioned on a couple podcasts, including one with Mara Wilson! Did any of you read this one?

A starry-eyed romantic, a cynical writer, and (the ashes of) an elderly woman take the road trip of a lifetime that just might upend everything they believe about true love.

Millicent Watts-Cohen is on a mission. When she promised her elderly best friend that she’d reunite her with the woman she fell in love with nearly eighty years ago, she never imagined that would mean traveling from D.C. to Key West with three tablespoons of Mrs. Nash’s remains in her backpack. But Millie’s determined to give her friend a symbolic happily-ever-after, before it’s (really) too late—and hopefully reassure herself of love’s lasting power in the process.

She just didn’t expect to have a living travel companion.

After a computer glitch grounds flights, Millie is forced to catch a ride with Hollis Hollenbeck, an also-stranded acquaintance from her ex’s MFA program. Hollis certainly does not believe in happily-ever-afters—symbolic or otherwise—and makes it quite clear that he can’t fathom Millie’s plan ending well for anyone.

But as they contend with peculiar bed-and-breakfasts, unusual small-town festivals, and deer with a death wish, Millie begins to suspect that her reluctant travel partner might enjoy her company more than he lets on. Because for someone who supposedly doesn’t share her views on romance, Hollis sure is becoming invested in the success of their journey. And the closer they get to their destination, the more Millie has to admit that maybe this trip isn’t just about Mrs. Nash’s love story after all—maybe it’s also about her own.

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Anna and the French Kiss

Anna and the French Kiss by Stephanie Perkins is $1.99! Many reviews on Goodreads mention becoming a member of the Bad Decisions Book Club in order to finish it. However, some found the heroine a bit too cutesy for their tastes. I know Sarah loved this one.

Anna can’t wait for her senior year in Atlanta, where she has a good job, a loyal best friend, and a crush on the verge of becoming more. So she’s not too thrilled when her father unexpectedly ships her off to boarding school in Paris – until she meets Etienne St. Clair, the perfect boy. The only problem? He’s taken, and Anna might be, too, if anything comes of her crush back home. Will a year of romantic near-misses end in the French kiss Anna awaits?

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Sally’s Baking Addiction

Sally’s Baking Addiction by Sally McKenney is either $3.99 or 99c depending on the vendor! Sally’s runs a popular baking blog/website under the same name. Do you have any favorite recipes?

Updated with a brand-new selection of desserts and treats, the fully illustrated Sally’s Baking Addiction cookbook offers more than 80 scrumptious recipes for indulging your sweet tooth—featuring a chapter of healthier dessert options, including some vegan and gluten-free recipes.

It’s no secret that Sally McKenney loves to bake. Her popular blog, Sally’s Baking Addiction, has become a trusted source for fellow dessert lovers who are also eager to bake from scratch. Sally’s famous recipes include award-winning Salted Caramel Dark Chocolate Cookies, No-Bake Peanut Butter Banana Pie, delectable Dark Chocolate Butterscotch Cupcakes, and yummy Marshmallow Swirl S’mores Fudge.

Find tried-and-true sweet recipes for all kinds of delicious:

Breads & Muffins
Breakfasts
Brownies & Bars
Cakes, Pies & Crisps
Candy & Sweet Snacks
Cookies
Cupcakes
Healthier Choices
With tons of simple, easy-to-follow recipes, you get all of the sweet with none of the fuss!

Hungry for more? Learn to create even more irresistible sweets with Sally’s Candy Addiction and Sally’s Cookie Addiction.

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Just a simple intro. Dayglow and nightglow also exist, as sub-categories. It can be reproduced in a lab!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Airglow

Example can be found over on FB, if you still have that hanging around. This is photographer Bryan Hansel's Page. So may be public.

https://www.facebook.com/Bryan.Hansel.Photography/posts/pfbid0SGcAMoA5jmYhLBjAZmjD6RJ5AqfSjmEBWGtCw6dz1rC9txcGU1V3auBYzeBv74uyl

Today's stupid idea

May. 22nd, 2026 10:25 am
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A Gun For Godzilla, which is along the lines of de Camp's A Gun for Dinosaur or Drake's Time Safari, except the excessively optimistic rich people are hunting Kaiju.

The hunters have .600 Nitro Express rifles while their prey can melt steel with their body heat.
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I got myself a new musical instrument (one of these) and I thought I would give it a spin on a cover song. For reasons that are known only to the subterranean recesses of my own brain, this is the song that immediately recommended itself, the second-most popular song from The Postal Service.

The Orchid (the synth I got) is indeed providing one layer of the synth sequence that runs through the whole song, although there are other sounds at work as well. Plus I put my falsetto to work for some harmonies. In the actual song, the harmonies are handled by Jenny Lewis, and I’m not going to get anywhere that level, but I think I did okay enough, considering.

Not bad for basically one-noting my way around a new synth. I hope you like it. Enjoy.

— JS

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This is something I’ve been thinking about a lot for the last year plus, and with the EFF coming out a number of days ago and strongly encouraging other people to think about it too, I thought it would be a good time to share my findings with all of you.

So here are three decent ways to have communications that keep working when both the internet AND cellphone networks go down.

1: AMATEUR RADIO, a.k.a. HAM Radio
the most capable but with the biggest barrier to entry

  • THE GOOD: Longest range. Most flexible. Most capable.
  • THE BAD: Difficult license. Relatively expensive equipment. Technically difficult. Unencrypted.
  • THE COST: Highest of the three options here. Testing and licensing fees alone cost as much as the other options.

This isn’t going to be an option for most of you because you’re going to have to make time to study, take the qualifying exam to get a license (I’m KK7ZLU if you have one), purchase that license, then purchase a radio and antenna(s) you need and yes those are separate, and get it all set up if you want long-range communications.

On the plus side, this is filled with people who already know what they’re doing. So if you’re good at tests and have the money and time to take all the steps? Great! Please do it! The more the merrier.

2: FRS AND/OR GMRS RADIO
surprisingly capable least-effort handheld radios

  • THE GOOD: REAL easy to get started, particularly FRS. GMRS can be leveraged to extend range. Trivially easy to use.
  • THE BAD: GMRS requires a license, but there’s no test and it’s trivial to get. Unencrypted.
  • THE COST: Probably the cheapest option. You can buy three-packs of FRS radios for like $60 and they’re fine. GMRS radios are more expensive, how much depends upon how powerful a radio you buy.

Okay, so, you want a modern walkie-talkie, and not junk? Something with some range? And maybe with a base station that sits in your house or car? But you don’t want to have to study for a license examination?

Welcome to the overlapping worlds of FRS and GMRS.

FRS (‘Family Radio Service’) and GMRS (‘General Mobile Radio Service’) are two separate but very compatible radio standards. The radios – typically hand-held – have numbered channels, many of which are used by both kinds of radio. By using them together, you improve both.

Using them is very simple: pick a channel, push the button to talk, then let off the button and listen for a reply. Done.

So: how are they different?

First, GMRS radios are much more powerful – and so longer-range – than FRS radios.

Second, GMRS radios can use “repeaters,” which are automated radios that can pick up your signals and resend them over a much larger area. I can from home talk to people across much of western Washington State because of these repeaters.

Third, Because of these two features, GMRS radios require a license, whereas FRS radios do not. But there is NO test for this license. No studying, no prep, no examination. You just buy one online, and you can do it tonight if you want. Once you have bought the license, your whole family can use it. It costs $35 for 10 years. (I’m WSLT671.)

By contrast, FRS radios can be used by literally anyone, INCLUDING SMALL CHILDREN. There are several families around here who have bought sets of FRS radios for their kids. I know this because I pick them up all the time on my GMRS base station. It’s like hearing neighbour kids play over the fence or down the block.

So how does using them together improve both?

In general, GMRS licensees have more technical leeway than FRS users. FRS radios have small, simple antennas you are not allowed to modify, which limits their range. With GMRS radios, you can buy – or even make – much better antennas.

Between the better antennas and the higher power, having GMRS on one end of any conversation extends the effective range of the FRS radios you’re talking to. Using GMRS on shared channels lets you both hear and talk to FRS users from further away.

E.g., in hilly terrain, you’ll be lucky to get one and a half to two miles with FRS alone. But with GMRS on one end and FRS on the other, you can get eight miles or more even in bad conditions. Under ideal conditions, 30 miles is not impossible. Two FRS users may not be able to talk to each other at the same time at those sorts of distances, but if they can both talk to the GMRS station, the GMRS user can pass messages along.

In short: having a GMRS radio in the mix makes FRS radios better, extending their range, sometimes dramatically, which means fewer licenses, cheaper radios, and better access in the short run.

Finally:

3: TEXT OVER RADIO
LoRa digital text radios

  • THE GOOD: No license of any kind. The longest range of anything without a license. Messages are encrypted. Text-based, so more comfortable for some. Public and private texting, with restricted-access channels. Tremendous range with repeaters – CascadiaMesh extends from the southern Oregon border up through Kamloops and northern Vancouver Island.
  • THE BAD: Text only. Very new, so very much in flux. There are two common communications standards and applications to go along with them: MeshCore and Meshtastic. And they are NOT compatible – they do NOT talk to each other – which means different areas are settling on one or the other. Documentation for setup is mid and usability is “yep, sure is for nerds,” a comment which I’m told is also for nerds. What that means is that getting set up and using it may dismay some people, but will particularly dismay the nontechnical who will absolutely need handholding.
  • THE COST: Middle ground, closer to the cheaper end. If you use a companion device with an existing tablet, cell phone, or computer, think $60 for each. You may be able to make your own if you’re that kind of person, though that’s only ever really worth it for repeaters.

LoRa is a kind of digital two-way radio being used here for texts. If you want to be able to text across long distances when both the internet and cell phones are down, this is a good way to do it, as long as everyone involved has LoRa devices. (LoRa texting does NOT work with regular cell phone texting, in the same way that Discord doesn’t work with it either. It is an entirely separate thing.)

There are LoRa devices that bundle all the functionality into one piece of equipment, and also LoRa “companion” devices with LoRA transmitters inside which work with software on a computer, phone, or tablet.

An example of a dedicated device is the LilyGo T-Deck. If you remember Blackberry devices, it looks like a Blackberry device. But instead of using cell phone services or the internet, it’s just directly talking over radio. No cell service, no internet: just radio.

An example of a “companion” device is the WishMesh Tag. It’s a rectangle about the size of a debit card, but thicker. If you turn its GPS receivers off, it’ll run a solid four, maybe five days on a single charge. You connect your phone, tablet, or computer to it via bluetooth using special software (the previously-mentioned MeshCore or Meshtastic) and run the accompanying app to send and receive encrypted text messages with individuals or groups.

Again: even though it can work on a cell phone, NONE OF THIS REQUIRES INTERNET OR CELL SERVICE. The “phone” isn’t being used as a cellphone here, it’s being used as a small computer that has bluetooth.

In much of the US, the most commonly used software is Meshtastic. Here in Cascadia, MeshCore (download at https://meshcore.io ) is the standard, and it is a very large area network. It seems to work better than Meshtastic does in our mountainous geography, which is why everyone switched.

Both are open source, although closed-source/commercial versions also exist.

Unfortunately, as above, the two packages don’t cross-communicate! So you want to find out what’s most common in your area and use that one, whatever it happens to be.

What do I recommend? Glad you asked.

Being me, I’ve got all three options listed here up and running. I’m just like that; if I can have a contingency plan, I will have a contingency plan; my noise in fiction about how “Sombra always has a plan” is straight-up me.

But that’s not the answer you’re looking for. The answer really depends upon what people are already using around you, because it’s easier to join an existing network than make a new one. But if you’re somewhere all three are active, or somewhere none of them are active, my answer is conditional:

  • If you’re working with people who have no technical background AND you don’t care about encryption, then option two, GMRS/FRS radios.
  • If you’re dealing with people who like new digital toys OR you care about encryption, then option three, LoRa radio text. You can even set up your own repeaters just about as easily as you can set up a companion device. Seeed makes a repeater that comes with an onboard solar panel and is as close to set-up-and-forget as you’re going to get. As things like this go, they’re not very expensive, and the battery life is generally kind of insane. They sip power, not guzzle it.

So basically, now’s a real good time to reach out to the kind of people you’d want to be able to reach regardless. Get a conversation going amongst the willing and interested, settle amongst yourselves on at least one of these, then set up and actually use it until you know it works and you’re comfortable with how it works.

After all – you never know what kind of emergency might happen, or when. And the time to be ready is beforehand, not during… when you won’t have the time to get comfortable with anything.

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